thebattleofloosingweight

I have been thinking a lot about this. That it really doesn’t matter what other people see when they look at you. Why did I come to this conclusion. Well when people look at me in person they think that well I am an attractive women. Not that I am full of myself because trust me that is the last thing that I am. But this is what I mean.

Almost sure that I am not the only one who feels this way. People look at you and they find an attraction towards you. Not just if you are pretty but I mean physically or maybe you just let out that sex appeal that comes natural to some. But when you have had weight issue all of your life. When you are always constantly torturing yourself over your weight it is hard to think of yourself as being attractive, pretty or beautiful. Confidence is not in our vocabulary.

Unfortunately when you put yourself threw so much it really does not matter what others see in you. If you don’t see it in yourself  then what is next. How can you ever be helped how can you ever get over this weight issue that has been on your back like a heavy shadow constantly hovering over you.

This is when patience has to kick in on behalf of your family and friends. You see it’s not that we are always fishing for a compliment because that is the last thing that we want or believe. Unfortunately with someone suffering over weight problems what you see is not what you get. We do want to get helped we just don’t know where to start or how to start.

Patience is a virtue that we don’t all possess so for those that do have it thank you!

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